First up, the Parker Palm Springs, It's got a total cool vibe, and they will completely customize your wedding to your tastes. As well there are numerous area's on the property for the ceremony and reception, as well a great breakfast patio for brunch the next day with all your family and friends!
The second hotel I love is the Solange Calistoga, a more classic winery and hotel feel this gorgeous hotel is eco friendly and located in Napa Valley.
L'Auberge del Mar, is a hotel that showcases the ocean, spectacular views, and really original spaces for your reception (love kitchen 1540's patio with the outdoor fireplace!)
Have a wonderful day luvvies